Tips for Getting over BJ Apprehension
- Mar 7, 2017
- 4 min read
Nervous about going down? Are you worried about your first time? Have any anxiety about whether you're good at giving a blowjob?
Here's some tips about how to get over your worries or fears:
1. Study
It took my 30 years to finally decide to put a penis in my mouth. Now, I'm one of the world's best at giving head (if I do say so myself- even though I don't just say so myself- LOL)
One of my first keys to SUCK-cess was to study. I read every book I could on fellatio. I watched a LOT of porn. I talked to friends. I wanted to be prepared for any and everything when I finally slide that dick into my mouth. You know what I found out? It wasn't enough! That's part of the reason that I began offering my Heads Cocked: fun blowjob class.
None of the books, videos, stupid practice on fruit and vegetables, or discussions with friends truly prepared me for the moment when I'd have to bob on a knob. What I really needed back then...was me- LOL. What study does do for you though, is begin to raise your awareness of what to expect and gives you a starting point to increase your confidence and willingness to move forward.
Best way to jumpstart your way to becoming an expert.
Have a one-on-one lesson from me. You'll learn all the techniques you're interested in, up-close and personal, in a judgement-free atmosphere where you can get as close to the action as you'd like and ask any question you want! Learn more HERE.
2. Start Slow
Let's face it, anytime you touch a man's dick he's going to be happy about it. So, if you need to take baby-steps, do that. Start with an "old fashioned" (a regular hand job). Get used to the way that a penis feels, the way it looks, smells, responds to your touch. Gain confidence in your ability to control how good your man feels. Experiment with being able to get more and more pre-cum from him. This is one of the most important, and most-often neglected part of giving head by most women. The ability to generate a steady flow of pre-cum from a penis is a skill that most women don't have or even know they need to have.
My husband and I still enjoy a nightly routine of my laying my head in his lap. I'll stroke his dick while we watch a movie or television and he'll play with my hair and rub my back. I get to lick up his pre-cum for an hour or more before he let's me know he's ready for me to suck his cock and cum. (FYI- prolonging a guy for this amount of time means there's going to be A LOT of cum!)
But, before you're ready for all that, just play with it. Feel the texture of the pre-cum. Taste it. I GUARANTEE the first time you lower your mouth and lick pre-cum from the tip of his
dick he'll go wild! Be ready though, he'll likely cum shortly you do that- LOL. But, again, that doesn't mean that you have to take it all in your mouth right away. You can also practice by letting him cum on your face or tits. But, I promise, you just get him to cum, and he'll be happy. Tell him you want to practice on him more- he'll be your devoted to whatever you want him for.
3. ACT confident
Fake it until you make it. If you act like you know what you're doing, get started, practice, pretty soon you actually WILL know what you're doing. Blowjobs can be like pizzas- even the worst ones are still pretty good. That brings us to point number 4...
4. Practice, practice, practice
There's no substitute for the real thing! Any woman who's ever attended one of my Heads Cocked: fun blowjob class or gotten one-on-one training from me know that I HATE how many women have been fooled into thinking that practicing on fruit or vegetables can prepare them for giving a good blowjob. It won't.
In order to really get better at giving a blowjob you have to actually GIVE blowjobs! I'm not saying to run around town and blow random strangers- lol. Though a great pick up line to score a guy is to tell him you think he left a blowjob at your place and he needs to cum by and get it. However, if you find a guy you really like, he's REALLY going to like you back when you tell him that you want to be great at giving blowjobs so you want to practice on him a lot. This may even get you a proposal!- LOL
Before long, you'll be well on your way to sucking dick like a champ, deep-throating, and swallowing cum!
It all just begins with your first steps, and if you're reading this, you're already started in the right place!
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
"Jenna" is the founder and "head instructor" at Heads Cocked: fun blowjob class. She is an expert instructor on the topic of fellatio. During her classes, Jenna provides personal instruction to the ladies in attendance and performs a LIVE demonstration of a REAL blowjob including performing various techniques such as deep-throating and swallowing semen. More information about the author can be found HERE.
Want to learn more about getting one-on-one classes in the Raleigh, Charlotte, Wilmington, Greensboro, Fayetteville, or Fort Bragg, North Carolina areas?
Drop me a line at: jenna@headscocked.com
For more information on taking your first fun blowjob class and becoming a heads cocked girl, click HERE.
Enjoy yourselves responsibly- don't brake any laws. Remember, regardless of how informative my services are, in the end, they are for entertainment purposes only.
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